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Reason #271: It’s been almost 10 months
It’s been almost 10 months now since my husband told me he feels like a girl inside. The first five months were spent in heavy mourning, with a lot of crying. The next two months – I spent them in and...
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Reason #275: Fundamentally Sad
When I was around 20, I had an epiphany. I realized that I was just fundamentally sad. What I meant was that this was how I was born, sad. I felt I was obviously genetically made up to be sad. It was a...
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Reason #277: Scary dream, was it real?
Last night I had another ‘touch me against my will’ dream. I have spoken before on this blog about my bad dreams. One of the many reasons you shouldn’t fuck kids – we get bad dreams for the rest of...
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Reason #280: Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is coming up. It will be my first since the breakup of my marriage, though certainly not my first V-Day spent alone. I was alone for many Valentines’ Days before I got married. The...
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Not a Reason – But a Topic we need to discuss re: Transgender issues
*** Please note – this discussion will be triggering to the trans community and supporters of the trans community. *** So, we need to talk. A few weeks ago, my blog generated some discussion about the...
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Reason # 281: Caterpillars and Butterflies
A few months ago, I went to a craft fair and I saw this sign: ”If you want to be a butterfly, you must be willing to stop being a caterpillar.” As my regular readers know, I call myself ‘Butterfly’ on...
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Reason #288: My Sister-In-Law and Easter Dinner
My sister in law has been acting like an ass around my ex ever since my ex has come out to her as transgendered. Her latest shit was that she arranged for an Easter family gathering at a time she knew...
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Reason #289: My Aunt and Passover dinner
So you remember how I was so worried about my sister-in-law and Easter dinner? Well, it turns out I should have looked a lot closer to home before worrying about my sister-in-law. My sister-in-law came...
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Reason #293: The fucking pride parade
Last year, about a month after my husband told me ‘he’ is actually a ‘she’, she went to the Gay Pride Parade. She was on the Transgender float, and she stayed at the Parade all day while I stayed home...
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Reason #297: A Funeral, A Ritual, Something to Mark this Time
Last week, I told my therapist that in a week my ex-husband is shedding his/her male identity entirely, and going full-time female. (She began her new life as an outwardly-appearing female today,...
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